For some, nookie in the dark is just how it’s done.  The familiar becomes grinding in a black abyss or making love in the vaguely obscure – unknowingly, the encounter censors the brilliance of genital upon genital and skin against skin.  Some may call it preferably routine, but I call it criminal.  When you have something so complex as intercourse, so beautifully bold, it seems wrong to hide it all in the depths of a light vacant room.
Growing up, I would religiously read the pages of Cosmopolitan and Marie Claire, who would tell their …

Siri Knows Nothing About Hookers in China
How do you know America is the best country on the planet? Siri tells you where the hookers are, and there’s nothing the government can do about it.
USA! USA! USA!
A few explanations are in order. Siri, in case you’ve been living under a rock, is Apple’s voice activated virtual assistant, available on newer-model iPhones and iPads. While she’s not perfect, the technology is pretty impressive. Apple coded Siri (not be confused with the porn star who “coincidentally”  has the same name) with a sense …

Memoirs, Documentary Give Amsterdam’s Oldest Prostitutes Respect
Meet the Fokkens.
No, not the Fokers, that’s the series of movies that made people realize that even Robert DeNiro can call in a performance now and then. Louise and Martine Fokken are 70 year old identical twins who are acknowledged as being Amsterdam’s oldest prostitutes, who’ve released their memoirs and are the subject of a recent documentary, which coincidentally enough is titled, “Meet the Fokkens.”
In case you’re wondering, and I know some of you are, Martine still works. Louise, because of arthritis, does not. …

Sex is Good…for Athletes!
A common piece of advice to wanna-be Olympians has always been to conserve their precious bodily fluids, which is a euphemism for not having sex. Some athletes abstain the night before they play, and others follow a much more ridged, weeks-long avoidance of carnal pleasure.
It’s a belief as old as the Greeks who competed in the nude in the original Olympics, with luminaries such as Muhammed Ali saying he went six weeks without sex and 5000 meter runner Marty Liquori quoted as saying, “Sex makes you happy. …

While the Olympics in London is overshadowing the 24 hour news cycle, Washington D.C. is playing host to the International AIDS Conference. For a very political event, it’s drawn its share of celebrities, including Elton John and Bill Gates.
There’s no surprises there. Everyone, no matter where in the world they are, has been touched in one way or another by the disease.
But one constituency with a very real stake in research and prevention is not represented at the conference — sex workers.
It’s the policy of the U.S. not to grant …

A note from Bobbi: When I’m not answering your emails, performing on video or shooting for Evil Angel or BobbiStarr.com, I’m coming up with devious schemes to bring people together — for the purpose of using electrical BDSM toys to shock each other. Take a walk on the wild side and watch me show a very different side of my sexuality on Kink.com’s weekly ElectroSluts update. If you’re lucky, I might even be in the update.
 
 

Woman Fights Obscurity, Sets World Record for Strongest Vagina…
There’s some world records that make sense. Say, the world’s tallest man or the most bench presses with a dog. But some are utterly random — and once you hear them, you just have to wonder if it’s real.
In this case, it’s the Guinness World Record for the world’s strongest vagina. Wait, what? It’s true. There’s a world’s record for the planet’s buffest lady parts. It belongs to Tatiata Kozhevnikova who began developing those muscles where the sun don’t shine after she …

Unhappy with Just .xxx, ICM Registry Tries to Snatch .porn, .sex and .adult
Remember ICM Registry? The company that succeeded in establishing the top level domain of .xxx that no one wanted? (Really, no one wanted it. Porn companies didn’t want it and anti-porn groups didn’t want it. When did you ever think those two would agree on anything?)
It seems the company’s business model remains to be finding a solution for a question no one was asking. The Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers (ICANN), disclosed in a press conference …

A Mature Look at Masturbation
With the rising tide of those who choose to live single, Mel van Driel proposes that masturbation may be a very important life skill. I couldn’t agree more — part of a healthy outlook on sex begins with appreciating that some of the best sex you have is sometimes with yourself.
It makes sense, after all. Who knows you better than you do? And what better way is there to explore your true heart’s desire without worrying about the judgment of society at large or at least …

One is famously the loneliest number, but it doesn’t mean it can’t be a sexy number. While most porn involves couples, threesomes and moresomes, perhaps the most intimate view of a performer comes from a masturbation scene. However, solo titles have gotten a bum rap as being dull. This is not the case for my masturbation feature for Evil Angel, “One.” It features Asa Akira, Julie Night, Kara Price, Tori Lux, Alysa and of course, yours truly. There’s lots of choking on big toys and said big toys in various …